How to Book Your First Activity

Go to Activities and browse what's available. Pick something you genuinely think you'll enjoy—not the activity where you think the "right" person might be. You can't know that anyway, and that's not how it works. If you enjoy food, join a dinner. If you like being active, choose padel or dancing. The specific activity matters less than simply choosing one.

Book directly in the app. Activities are grouped by age, so you'll join other singles in a similar stage of life. Groups may look small at first. That's because we balance the number of women and men and gradually open more spots as bookings come in. You don't need to wait for others to book first—very often, when you book, others do the same.

"Later" rarely happens. Add the activity to your calendar as soon as you've booked it. What started as an idea becomes something that's actually happening on Tuesday at 6 p.m.

That's your entire job. You don't need to prepare anything, bring anyone, or even be in a particular mood. You just need to be there.

Pick the one that's happening first. You can always book another one later. This isn't a decision you make once. It's something you do again and again—and it gets easier every time. The nerves fade, conversations flow more naturally, and you start recognizing familiar faces. The first booking is the only difficult one.

MinglMe is an activity dating platform where singles meet through activities for singles in Stockholm and other Swedish cities instead of chatting online.

Open the list and choose one. That's all you need to do right now.