What happens at an activity?
What stops most people isn't doubt about the idea. It's simply not knowing what to expect. Here's what happens—from the moment you walk through the door until the evening comes to an end.
Before You Come
You don't need to prepare anything. No introduction, no clever questions, nothing to rehearse. Wear whatever you would normally wear. Everyone else is just as new to the situation as you are.
When You Arrive
You'll be welcomed. There's always someone there who knows you're coming, knows your name, and shows you where to go. You don't have to search for the right table, interrupt an ongoing conversation, or stand by the door hoping someone notices you.
That first minute—the one that often feels the hardest beforehand—is exactly what we've worked hardest to make easy.
During the Activity
The activity is the focus—not you. It might be a dinner you're cooking together, a game you're playing, or an escape room you're solving. You're doing something together, and the conversations naturally grow out of what you're doing. That's very different from a traditional date, where conversation is the entire task and silence can feel like failure. Here, there's always something to talk about because you're experiencing it together. You'll talk to several people throughout the evening—not just one. You don't have to keep the conversation going. You don't have to be funny. If you'd rather listen for a while, that's perfectly fine.
Who You'll Meet
Everyone attending is single and in the same age group as you. We balance the number of women and men and open additional places as more people book. Everyone in the room has done the same thing you have: decided to come, booked a place, and shown up. That's the biggest difference compared with a dating app.
When the Evening Ends
Sometimes the group continues somewhere else. Sometimes everyone heads home. It's entirely up to you, and nobody expects anything from you. If someone caught your interest, you can mark them as a favourite in the app afterwards—without writing a message or needing to know exactly what you want. And if you didn't click with anyone, you've still spent the evening doing something you enjoy, meeting new people, and making the night count. That's part of the idea too.
Part of Activities for Singles in Stockholm and other Swedish cities
MinglMe is an activity dating platform where singles meet through activities for singles in Stockholm and other Swedish cities instead of through endless chats.
